I have a minecraft server (1.16.5) hosted on a VPS that has 16 GB of ram, I play with 8 friends on the server and it is using all of my ram, we play vanilla survival, but I don't see how this can cause the server to use 12 GB of ram.
I have a minecraft server (1.16.5) hosted on a VPS that has 16 GB of ram, I play with 8 friends on the server and it is using all of my ram, we play vanilla survival, but I don't see how this can cause the server to use 12 GB of ram.