Violet wants Tate but the not-so-murdery Tate that she saw prior to learning of his numerous misdeeds. Probably, too, she wants a less dysfunctional family with a faithful father and satisfied mother. She never gets the Tate she wants, but there is some hope that Tate might become that over time. So, while Violet may not get her true lover, she certainly seems satisfied enough with the way things have turned out with the rest of the family.