Our elderly neighbor just died. My four-year-old liked her, but she was not a major part of her life. I\u2019m wondering if she\u2019s too young to understand death, or what I should do. She\u2019s a pretty anxious kid, and I don\u2019t want to terrify her. But I\u2019ve also read some of your writing on grief, and I really don\u2019t want to be the mom who teaches her kid to ignore the bereaved.